Good Friday Reflection Station 3: The Cross is Laid on Simon of Cyrene

from Joan Chittister, OSB

station 3Third Station: The Cross is Laid on Simon of Cyrene


As they led Jesus away, they came upon a man of Cyrene, Simon by name, who was coming in from the country, and laid on him the cross to carry it behind Jesus. “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”



This station demonstrates for us the power of presence in the life of the poor and oppressed. Being where suffering is, associating ourselves with it, standing with those whom society has condemned is a great and gracious witness. At life’s greatest moments we choose it. At other times, it is thrust upon us: the state wants more tax money to support the poor, a relative’s child has nowhere to go for awhile but with us, a neighbor turns to us for help we did not freely offer and do not want to give. We’re busy, we’re tired, we don’t want to get involved, we don’t want to change the comfortable pattern of our own lives. But sometimes, if we’re lucky, we find ourselves in one of life’s great acts whether we want to be there or not. Then we so often discover that it is not so much what Simon did for Jesus as what Jesus did for Simon that counts.


What are we being called to do for someone in need right now for which we are a disinclined observer? What does the situation have to offer us as well? When we open our hearts to the other in need, we are very likely to discover that our own hidden needs have been healed in the process.



Jesus, when I fail to recognize the needs of those around me, send them into my life so that before I die I can come to the wholeness that generosity brings. Amen.


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